DO JERKS REALLY GET ALL THE GIRLS?

It's the same old , time tested saying. 'Why do Jerks get all the girls'. Every guy has at one point in his life or another made this same assumption. It's the same act as before. Nice guy goes up to a hot girl and tires to spark a conversation. He awkwardly asks for her name and ask's how she's doing. As has happened so many times before, the conversation lags, the girl becomes disengaged and always has a reason to stop him dead in his tracks or walk away. He stands there defeated and deflated. Later he and his buddies over a few beers ask the same question and come to the same result.

"Why didn't I pick her up? Obviously it's cause she's hot and only dates Jerks".  

Or. 

"Well she did date (Enter name of Jerk Here) and she was obsessed with him. She Like Assholes"

Or 

"Dude, you where to nice, you know hot chicks only like dicks"

So is it really true? If you aren't the Jerk or Asshole in the world, are you doomed to mediocrity?

Simple answer is NO. N.O.

IT'S NOT ABOUT THE JERK ITS ABOUT HIS CONFIDENCE

Good guys out there get plenty of hot woman. I've been one of them (although my days of trying to just pick up are over). The simple fact is that a Jerk gets a better response from women and high quality of woman (in physical attractiveness) because of one simple word. CONFIDENCE.

Confidence has been and always will be one of the greatest and most attractive features either a man or a woman can have. The best part about it is that you do not have to be out of character to be confident. There is no need to be someone else around a woman to be able to spark interest in her. You must be your self but with confidence and faith in your self.

THE CONFIDENT GENTLEMAN

You may not believe this now, but there is a special bread of man I like to call the Confident  Gentleman. The confident Gentleman (CG) is not the Jerk on the street or the shy nice guy slouching over to speak to a beautiful woman. The CG is respectable, funny, charming and most importantly assured of himself.  This is the man that all nice guys should try to become.  There are several avenues that you can use to build this confidence and going into detail and depth in one post would simply take far to long.

However, here is one simple tip. Start to identify your strengths and focus on them. Everyone has a strength or great part of their personality  or being. My suggestion is ask a trusted confident what they think are your "Good qualities". You will be surprised at what some people say. After which you need  to begin to focus that as a confidence builder. If you are such a  'funny guy', then remind yourself that before going out to the singles seen or before going up to a beautiful woman. Never try to be what your not. If you're not smooth but can make a room bust into laughter, then thats your niche. Work with it

BEING CONFIDENT DOESNT MEAN 100% RATE

Even when having full confidence, remember that does not guarantee a 100% pick up rate. You will not win all the time when trying to seduce a beautiful woman or break the ice. However, your chances will increase dramatically.

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Learn to Attract Hot Women: The Flower Myth

By Damien Drake

The Oldest Trick in the Book: Flowers

The gesture of giving a woman flowers to attract or seduce her has been one of the oldest gestures of affection known to man. This is logical when analyzed properly. Woman are creatures of visual stimulation. Not stimulation in the same way men are sexually, but rather biologically because of their "gatherer" nature from the stone age. Women in tribes picked berries and other fruits for their tribes. They where built to find the colorful and vibrant berries. Flowers simply activate those sensors in a woman's brain that causes them to relate them with life and the feeling of vibrance.

Why Giving Flowers is an Art:
There is a very good reason as to why men in this day and age are concerned about giving a woman they are trying to attract or seduce flowers. Most men who give a woman flowers during courtship do so through a feeling of insecurity. Flowers themselves do nothing in showing a woman that a man is insecure or is simply, "BFF" material. Rather it is the general dynamic and time that the flowers are given that can either be the boost needed to take the courtship to the next level or push your chances over the cliff.

Flowers are not a beginning stage gift:
Contrary to Hollywood and your mom's advice, flowers should not be given right at the beginning of the courtship or during the creation of a strong attraction. There are two main points to explain this. The first point is if the woman you are courting is more interested in you than you are in her. Although this dynamic does allow you more leeway to give flowers immediately, the trade offs and potential substitution costs are not worth the risks. If the flowers are received in a positive manner and create more attraction, it will also create a sense of entitlement (although this may even be unconscious).If the flowers are accepted and have the converse result in which they cause you to have a perceived weakness, then you will have more work to do to seduce your woman. Flower's are an excellent tool once the initial courtship is coming to an end. After multiple dates and sense of attachment has been created by the man and the woman, then flowers are a powerful tool. The key is to leverage them properly.

The Trick to Giving Flowers: Public Opinion
There is a potent and effective way to give flowers to a woman you are seducing or building a relationship with. The greatest leverage in giving flower's to a woman is giving them to her in the presence of friends, family and coworkers. This trick is an amazing catalyst in creating a strong sense of desire from a woman. The reason for this is because of public opinion and the law of contrast. Flower's that are hand delivered, either by person or through a flower business (ie. Pro Flowers) will cause interest in you and your relationship in the people (women) that your woman has trust with or a friendship with. Suddenly, you will be "too cute" and so "special" (this being public opinion) or you will look like "such a great guy" relative to the other men she has had or her friends are currently dating (Law of Contrast). This is the key to giving Flowers. You are instilling peer pressure into her relationships with other women and/or general acquaintances.

Conclusion
The usefulness of this tactic cannot be stressed enough. The ability to influence the people around the woman that you are seducing is critical. It is analogous to having your very own marketing specialist promoting how great you are. This does not mean that this will cement your status with both the woman you are seducing and her friends. There are many additional tactics that can be used. However, take this dating tip into consideration and become the man every one of her friends talks about that one day so you can leverage it into bigger and better results.

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Simple Dating Tips: Tiffany Taylor and Guy Gets Girl Reveal the Secret Power of Humor

As I had promised in my previous site, “dating guides that work”, I am giving you one of the many dating tips from the best dating guides on the net. I assure you this is one that is so simple and useful and you are going to think it’s a joke, but it works so well I just had to start with it.

Using  Tiffany Taylor’s Guy Gets Girl dating guide has many advantages. Because of this I thought that giving you tips that you can take home and use immediately would be the right place to begin.

This point is actually a personal favorite of mine because it has increased my dating and sex life 100s of times over. So read on and learn my friends because you just found the site that is going to get you laid this weekend or even tonight!

HUMOR IS A POWERFUL ALLY, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE AND GET HER INTERESTED.

Why Humor Works:

It is no surprise that the majority of women find humor as a major importance when picking out potential mates. The reasons for this are very basic. To summarize it, women are constantly under stress or worried about something. The man that they pick needs to be able to counter act that. Laughing is one way of doing so. Without them even consciously knowing it, women normally need a man to be able to make them laugh because laughing releases serotonin and other chemicals in the brain that uplifts them.

You almost become an addiction to them. Subconsciously, they need their fix of serotonin and you are their drug of choice!

It is that simple. This is why I have recommend the Guy Gets Girl Dating Guide system since day one.

* Dating Tip One: Begin with the easy stuff and do not act like a clown.

In other words, do not go into slapstick humor. Women want to feel like a man has the potential to protect them, and as you can imagine a clown doesn’t give off that feeling. More than likely if you act like a clown you will get axed.

Learn a few small jokes or wise cracks that are easy to remember and that you pull of flawlessly. Practice on a friend or something, just make sure the one you chose you feel comfortable with. When you get into your conversation, shoot a few off ONLY when the time seems right.

* Dating Tip Two: Lewd and Lascivious (There is a reason that they're outlawed).

It sounds a bit off but it’s true. When most women are out, they are not interested in hearing about sex parts (there are exceptions to the rule but it is better to be safe than sorry). Any jokes about “penis” (cock), “vagina” (pussy) or “breast” (tits) will more than likely make you come off like some brute or pervert. Keep it clean.

* Dating Tip Three: Get her laughing and quite while you’re ahead.

Humor is used to get her interested in you. It is not the way you want to present yourself. Someone who jokes around too much normally loses out or puts their foot in their mouth. They eventually seem as if they “can’t take anything seriously”.

Also, there always comes a time, such as entering a movie or ordering food at a nice restaurant, that you are taking a big risk when you decide to open your mouth with a joke. So get her smiling, get her laughing and then move the conversation into open ended questions to “learn” about her.

There you have it. Useful dating tips those are straight to the point and easy to use. Do not veer from these. They are gold. I know they work from first hand experience. You now understand the balance between being the “ He is so much fun” guy to being “God, he is such a goof!”

And the Goof never got the girl.

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